tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post6311566221858363800..comments2023-11-02T09:17:23.748+00:00Comments on My Mother's Child: Conversations with my inner man ............Miss Definitely Maybehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-8473821618026895222008-09-24T16:22:00.000+01:002008-09-24T16:22:00.000+01:00This was beautiful (I guess that is a redundant co...This was beautiful (I guess that is a redundant comment on your blog).<BR/>It was also very heartfelt, melodic, like a Blues piano solo.Naapalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11868505901688507321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-45811060066638426982008-09-21T00:16:00.000+01:002008-09-21T00:16:00.000+01:00DM,if it was all smooth, how we for know say God h...DM,<BR/><BR/>if it was all smooth, how we for know say God has our back?badderchichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10627476312018787583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-39360810622123003362008-09-20T18:01:00.000+01:002008-09-20T18:01:00.000+01:00Omg, I know how difficult it is to write a blog po...Omg, I know how difficult it is to write a blog post that makes sense when all the thoughts in your head are all jumbled up..<BR/><BR/>Oh + it's so frustrating when you want to write about something but you can't because someone else will get mad...Talk about an aaaargh momemnt...<BR/><BR/>Lovely post thoughLoliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06622661980066724665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-46411862165419247792008-09-20T16:47:00.000+01:002008-09-20T16:47:00.000+01:00Very interesting blog Miss DM. we all struggle wit...Very interesting blog Miss DM. we all struggle with our Christianity and our sexuality. We all have the need to be loved and cherished, as well as walk down that aisle. But i tell my girls one thing- anybody can get married. If we want a good marraige then we cant choose for ourselves- we HAVE to involve God in our choice. Bf is different to Husband. <BR/><BR/>As for the guilty feeling u get after the so-called normal act. I reckon thats ur sub-conscious telling u pre-marital nukie is wrong. My married friends tell me sex after marraige is in another realm- u can let go........it is much better than when single. Plus they no longer get the guilty feeling.Tigeresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17004116586549466667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-41469774523891591192008-09-20T06:29:00.000+01:002008-09-20T06:29:00.000+01:00I was nervous that at 1am I wouldn't be able to re...I was nervous that at 1am I wouldn't be able to read this 'long' post. But, surprise, surprise. You write well and the conversations flowed.<BR/><BR/>Congrats on saying sorry first for the first time. That is a big deal. Thanks so much for sharing this.SOLOMONSYDELLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564768670896215900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-46242976831378320092008-09-19T23:11:00.000+01:002008-09-19T23:11:00.000+01:00I couldnt help but find the humor in this. Serious...I couldnt help but find the humor in this. Seriously, who await the next break-up? Your too funny!!<BR/>Big ups for saying Sorry first-it takes some guts and soul humbling. <BR/>I dont know if I ever told you this, but I love your blog name (and the reason behind it)!Nigerian Drama Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05571464276621601553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-67801691019804589912008-09-19T22:35:00.000+01:002008-09-19T22:35:00.000+01:00Afronuts, some questions dont have answers, but th...Afronuts, some questions dont have answers, but that doesnt stop the human mind from asking them. perhaps though some questions are best left unanswered.<BR/><BR/>Afrobabe, it makes sense maybe I should have kept up the pretense of still hurting, tried to but it didnt work. so the bag had to go back...ah well guess will have to play Lil Miss Independent and save for that gucci arm candy.<BR/><BR/>rita, I dont know what happened I had left a comment, blame Blogger.com. will go back and rewrite it sorry dear<BR/><BR/>FF Florida, lol my pastor will probably pour a bucket load of holy water over me lol screaming 'I bind you in the name of Jesus' lol. But we should be allowed to ask these things if we already think about them. <BR/><BR/>Rayo, thanks for passing by, hopefully this wont be the last. <BR/><BR/>Oluwadee, yes I did talk about sex but in the context of a relationship. The emphasis on my post was about the relationship not the sex. (if that makes any sense)<BR/><BR/>Buttercup, I hear you doll, "no more heartbreaks" x18(I have repeated this more times than you called my name lol.)The wedding blog is still there but just decided to keep it private until later coz the two blogs are conflicting in a way so i thought it would confuse people. But im still blogging on it. Im good though has the boyfriend been in touch dying 4 u to give an update.Miss Definitely Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-91930826411249277662008-09-19T18:57:00.000+01:002008-09-19T18:57:00.000+01:00oh n what happened to ur weddin blog???oh n what happened to ur weddin blog???Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-79674900449475573912008-09-19T18:56:00.000+01:002008-09-19T18:56:00.000+01:00wow ok..sorry the pamperin period is over..MDM, MD...wow ok..<BR/><BR/>sorry the pamperin period is over..MDM, MDM, MDM!!!! how many times did i call u?? dont wish for another heartbreak, dont let the thought cross ur mind!! even if it means me pamperin u(how, i have no idea), but yea, u get me..lol..<BR/><BR/>i really enjoyed this post..<BR/><BR/>sadly, i have no answer to any of the questions tho..<BR/><BR/>anyhoos, how r u??Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-73732150791264136982008-09-19T16:56:00.000+01:002008-09-19T16:56:00.000+01:00Your posts are always webby.I so thought you were ...Your posts are always webby.<BR/><BR/>I so thought you were talking about sex.O'Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07678018050951152616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-17833087492880311842008-09-19T11:46:00.000+01:002008-09-19T11:46:00.000+01:00now u know i was here...now u know i was here...Rayohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10724898765410497224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-66135491288445496562008-09-18T17:12:00.000+01:002008-09-18T17:12:00.000+01:00those questions 2 ur pastor will certainly bring a...those questions 2 ur pastor will certainly bring abt some interesting reaction 4rm him. i can just imagine him telling 'my child, repent 4 d kingdom of God is @ hand'Flourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-27453408801863251392008-09-18T17:08:00.000+01:002008-09-18T17:08:00.000+01:00looks like someone is growing up! & discoverin...looks like someone is growing up! & discovering life out there can b everything rolled into one - joy, pain, frustration, ecstasy etc. it's all good. wot we do is make d most of it. some of us blog 2 lighten our load. it's all good.Flourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-31577585346271201732008-09-18T15:51:00.000+01:002008-09-18T15:51:00.000+01:00I thot you left a very nice and humorous comment o...I thot you left a very nice and humorous comment on my blog? Or was it for someone else :-) Thanks sha. I liked the comment.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202972020876371306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-49334430184899548352008-09-18T12:30:00.000+01:002008-09-18T12:30:00.000+01:00So YT did not get run over by a bus....dannnggg......So YT did not get run over by a bus....dannnggg...maybe next time...Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-47390038499359282192008-09-18T12:29:00.000+01:002008-09-18T12:29:00.000+01:00squiggles and scribbles....Me like those words...l...squiggles and scribbles....Me like those words...<BR/><BR/>lmao @ ur aunt...sometimes ppl being nice during our mourning is not always a good thing as we get comfortable being felt sorry for..(did that make sense?)Afrobabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418456633732918114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-49369610929288043102008-09-17T10:02:00.000+01:002008-09-17T10:02:00.000+01:00Yeah knew u was joking hon!MDM, am in my second yr...Yeah knew u was joking hon!<BR/>MDM, am in my second yr now (long way to go i guess), but am so grateful for blogville coz now you can be helping me..lol...actually am serious about that one!! I guess thats why m trying to discipline myself by staying clear of Blogville on weekends, and well telling my girls that once more we cut down on girly time @ mine on weekends..(difficult!)...but its always good to know those who've been there and done it allShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-24489744534194693322008-09-17T08:55:00.000+01:002008-09-17T08:55:00.000+01:00In order to have the answers to your questing musi...In order to have the answers to your questing musings...you need to become someone else; you need to become this someone else in roder to understand ur answers..Afronutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15566418094230419342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-88554177018205050172008-09-17T08:54:00.000+01:002008-09-17T08:54:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Afronutshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15566418094230419342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-29906768015586142852008-09-17T00:14:00.000+01:002008-09-17T00:14:00.000+01:00lol Shonawas just playing with youwhich year at Un...lol Shona<BR/>was just playing with you<BR/>which year at Uni are you in now?<BR/>I've been practising for 3yrs now<BR/>It sucks<BR/>all work and no play<BR/>well that is if you exclude facebook, blogger and all those other sites I waste my billable hours on lolMiss Definitely Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-43394467516866554512008-09-17T00:10:00.000+01:002008-09-17T00:10:00.000+01:00i guess that's why m doing law...my maths sucks......i guess that's why m doing law...my maths sucks...so if you do need legal representation then we cool like thatShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-85570665551216100902008-09-16T17:15:00.000+01:002008-09-16T17:15:00.000+01:00greyamethyst, thanks so much and please do come ba...greyamethyst, thanks so much and please do come back.I love yours too.<BR/><BR/>red saphire, awwwww Im sorry if I made you cry but its okay to cry sometimes. Thanks for the compliment its giving me more confidence to write coz sometimes I think what I write doesnt make much sense...so thanks.<BR/><BR/>Azuka, 'inner man' is not gendered its just a metorphor for my conscience/soul/spirit/gaurdian angel or whatever it is inside ourselves that helps us question our morality or decide right from wrong. Just the same way as we refer to God or the holy spirit as 'he'.<BR/><BR/>Laughter, its good to see you here, you always bring a smile to my face and I will never tire of letting you know. Thanks for the confidence u always have in me.Miss Definitely Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-15193470249508566982008-09-16T17:01:00.000+01:002008-09-16T17:01:00.000+01:00Baby girl, am happy as you are now a recovered wom...Baby girl, am happy as you are now a recovered woman, it is a slow road but you will get there. Just keep on hanging in there. You shall be fine.Laughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00944526839564017925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-49936259088552873002008-09-16T14:56:00.000+01:002008-09-16T14:56:00.000+01:00Um, Inner Man?Um, Inner <B>Man</B>?Azukahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09103198528329959203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4002752152333675607.post-44930437145590411762008-09-16T12:11:00.000+01:002008-09-16T12:11:00.000+01:00You've got an award miss definitely maybe,Follow t...You've got an award miss definitely maybe,<BR/>Follow the link... <BR/>http://wwwredsapphire.blogspot.com.<BR/>Enjoy!!!!Red Sapphirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05785537322852213102noreply@blogger.com